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I'm hoping this is the right place to just vent a little.  I took my son to visit my dad this past week.  It was good for him to see the wildlife in the area and newborn calves at the "ranch."  The family he shares the property with is very nice - former Mennonites who realize I am not going to be christian.  However, both the family and dad listen to way too much talk radio.  I tend to forget that people do actively believe things like:

1)  If Obama is elected you will only get to keep 37 cents of every $1 you make (for annual incomes of +/- $50,000 or less).  Also, he is a racist who will actively work against caucasians.

2)  In 15 years I will apologize for believing in global climate change - unless the apocalypse has occurred first. (Apparently society has recently checked something of the list in Ezekial.  I didn't ask what.) 

3)  Oil prices have dropped solely due to the psychological effect of talking about offshore drilling.  (Recently released reports noting consumption drops and fundamental overvaluation by speculators has NOTHING to do with it.)

4)  The Iraq war has been totally won.  We're just doing a little bit of clean up and the soldiers will no longer be needed at all in a few months.

The fact that I do know at least some of the facts behind each issue is completely disregarded.  (I have a degree in math, have studied some chemistry, physics, and biology, and am registered with the SEC as an investment advisor representative.)  You can't let facts get in the way of belief.  I find myself at a loss for words when they come up with such things and are unwilling to listen to any data related to the issue. 

What do you do when you find yourself in such situations? 

 

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anniet wrote:What do you do

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What do you do when you find yourself in such situations? 

Weep as hard as I can.


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anniet wrote:You can't let

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You can't let facts get in the way of belief.

I think that sums it up right there.

As far as what I do, depends on the person. Somtimes I'll laugh it off, other times I try and let them know I think they are an idiot.

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1)  If Obama is elected you will only get to keep 37 cents of every $1 you make (for annual incomes of +/- $50,000 or less).  Also, he is a racist who will actively work against caucasians.

Do they know that would include half of his family? Or are they completely ignoring that he is half black? Wow, a 63% tax rate huh?

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2)  In 15 years I will apologize for believing in global climate change - unless the apocalypse has occurred first. (Apparently society has recently checked something of the list in Ezekial.  I didn't ask what.)

Again, I refer to your quote: " You can't let facts get in the way of belief."

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3)  Oil prices have dropped solely due to the psychological effect of talking about offshore drilling.  (Recently released reports noting consumption drops and fundamental overvaluation by speculators has NOTHING to do with it.)

Oh yes, those pesky news reports saying that drivers are driving less than they have in what 30, 20 years or something like that? If you have too much supply and less of a demand, prices do typically lower for that product.

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4)  The Iraq war has been totally won.  We're just doing a little bit of clean up and the soldiers will no longer be needed at all in a few months.

That's a new one. Things have been more 'quiet' for sure, but, totally won? Based on what?

It's really hard to talk to people when comes to things like this. I read stuff like this and I instantly think of Holocaust deniers and 9/11 conspiracy nuts.

 

 


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anniet wrote:1)  If Obama

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1)  If Obama is elected you will only get to keep 37 cents of every $1 you make (for annual incomes of +/- $50,000 or less).  Also, he is a racist who will actively work against caucasians.

Where does this even come from? Seriously. Obama has talked about reducing the deficit, and also talked about bringing the wage gap back into line. He's not mentioned a 63% tax, at least, not last I read.

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2)  In 15 years I will apologize for believing in global climate change - unless the apocalypse has occurred first. (Apparently society has recently checked something of the list in Ezekial.  I didn't ask what.) 

Cool! I want to be part of the apocalypse. I'm gonna market T-shirts that say, "My saviour made me suffer through the end times, and all I got was this lousy T-shirt."

I wonder if there's an end-times checklist somewhere on the intertubes?

Oh my God! There is! I'm so happy.

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3)  Oil prices have dropped solely due to the psychological effect of talking about offshore drilling.  (Recently released reports noting consumption drops and fundamental overvaluation by speculators has NOTHING to do with it.)

Isn't that a kind of squishy left-wing thing, talking about your economic issues to help resolve them? "Gee, Doc, if only I could get this off-shore drilling thing off my chest, I'm sure it will reduce the economic pressure that's been building up inside of me."

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4)  The Iraq war has been totally won.  We're just doing a little bit of clean up and the soldiers will no longer be needed at all in a few months.

It has been totally won. We just don't have the decency to admit we lost.

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The fact that I do know at least some of the facts behind each issue is completely disregarded.  (I have a degree in math, have studied some chemistry, physics, and biology, and am registered with the SEC as an investment advisor representative.)  You can't let facts get in the way of belief.  I find myself at a loss for words when they come up with such things and are unwilling to listen to any data related to the issue. 

What do you do when you find yourself in such situations? 

It's scary how truthful Stephen Colbert is when he talks about following his "gut." It makes me laugh every time. It's funny 'cause it's true.

You can't really blame them, though. They are deliberately being fed misinformation. It's hard to know the truth when the world is so full of lies, and what hurts most is that the lies are being spread by people who know they are lies. The lies are used as weapons in the fight for a "higher ideal," but that just means the higher ideal is based on lies.

As much as I hate willfull ignorance, I deplore the intentional pollution of the knowledgescape even more.

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What do you do when you find yourself in such situations?

Start the launch sequence of my rocket ship.

 

...Oh. Or did you mean for cases in the immediate future? Sticking out tongue

I've pretty much convinced myself that there's no winning with these individuals. Just smile, nod, walk away and try to pretend tomorrow will yield a smarter populace.

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anniet wrote:I'm hoping this

anniet wrote:

I'm hoping this is the right place to just vent a little.  I took my son to visit my dad this past week.  It was good for him to see the wildlife in the area and newborn calves at the "ranch."  The family he shares the property with is very nice - former Mennonites who realize I am not going to be christian.  However, both the family and dad listen to way too much talk radio.  I tend to forget that people do actively believe things like:

1)  If Obama is elected you will only get to keep 37 cents of every $1 you make (for annual incomes of +/- $50,000 or less).  Also, he is a racist who will actively work against caucasians.

2)  In 15 years I will apologize for believing in global climate change - unless the apocalypse has occurred first. (Apparently society has recently checked something of the list in Ezekial.  I didn't ask what.) 

3)  Oil prices have dropped solely due to the psychological effect of talking about offshore drilling.  (Recently released reports noting consumption drops and fundamental overvaluation by speculators has NOTHING to do with it.)

4)  The Iraq war has been totally won.  We're just doing a little bit of clean up and the soldiers will no longer be needed at all in a few months.

The fact that I do know at least some of the facts behind each issue is completely disregarded.  (I have a degree in math, have studied some chemistry, physics, and biology, and am registered with the SEC as an investment advisor representative.)  You can't let facts get in the way of belief.  I find myself at a loss for words when they come up with such things and are unwilling to listen to any data related to the issue. 

What do you do when you find yourself in such situations?  

 

 

I try to remember how afraid they must be in order to distort facts so badly.

That's what I do.

Just look at the ideas they throw at you....

1) If Obama is elected... (fearful idea, so spread it around so he gets fewer votes)

2) Global climate change... (fearful idea so let's be prepared to beg forgiveness)

3) Oil prices have dropped....(fearful idea that the recently released reports could be right)

4) The Iraq war... (fearful ongoing battles and deaths so let's ignore that it could go on for a very, very, very long time. Did I mention fear of death. Oh, so I did)

 

 


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Choose your battles. I just

Choose your battles. I just got a similar speech from a customer friday. Obama's evil, W got a bad rap, Democrats hate America, blah blah blah... I tried to get a word in edgewise but he steamrolled me and what little I did say was passed right through like he was Robert Patrick in T2. The only thing I could have done to counter him would be to turn it into a shouting match. I decided since I live in a state that will probably be decidedly for Obama it wasn't worth risking my job trying to change his mind.

If that's what you're up against and it won't cost you your job just dismiss them like you would a crazy bum and move on.

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nigelTheBold wrote:I wonder

nigelTheBold wrote:

I wonder if there's an end-times checklist somewhere on the intertubes?

Oh my God! There is! I'm so happy.

That is awesome! 

And, Wonko, you're right.  I forget how scared you can get when you don't know what's really going on around you.

Thank you all.  I think the answer is just come here and bitch about the family after I visit!   

 

(For those who asked, I think this information is coming from Michael Savage, Rush Limbaugh, et al.  Yeah.  I know.  I swear, they really are nice people at heart, just really uneducated.)

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Coming from someone who

Coming from someone who almost gave my father in law a heart attack by voicing my views on abortion, I say just stick to your guns. Most people want to live in a little bubble where they are comfortable in their opinions. The truth is just too scary for some folks, but all you can do is point out the fatal flaws in their arguements. If they schoose not to research both (or more) sides of an issue itsn't worth my time trying to fix them.

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Quote:I wonder if there's an

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I wonder if there's an end-times checklist somewhere on the intertubes?

Oh my God! There is! I'm so happy.

Anyone want to bet we can clearthe entire checklist right now?

...No takers? Well, okay - but let's just give it a go for fun:

War? Check

Earthquakes? Check

Famine? Check

Pestilence? Check

Fearful events? Check

Signs from Heaven (See: Comets & meteors)? Check

People fed-up with Christians? Check

Divided Christian followings? Check

Blooming Figs? Check

Jerusalem Being Attcked? Check

Atheists? Check

Bad people? Check

Preachers / Missionaries doing their dirty work? Check

 

Wow, look! All of the vague prophecies are fulfilled!

So where the fuck is Jesus, already? That guy owes me money.

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you forgot 1 thing

you forgot 1 thing Kevin...

 

Nazi's riding on dinosaurs...

 

>.>

 

<.<

 

maybe next week

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Kevin R Brown wrote:So where

Kevin R Brown wrote:

So where the fuck is Jesus, already? That guy owes me money.

 

bwa-ha-ha-ha-haaaaaaa


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Cali_Athiest2 wrote:Coming

Cali_Athiest2 wrote:

Coming from someone who almost gave my father in law a heart attack by voicing my views on abortion, I say just stick to your guns. Most people want to live in a little bubble where they are comfortable in their opinions. The truth is just too scary for some folks, but all you can do is point out the fatal flaws in their arguements. If they schoose not to research both (or more) sides of an issue itsn't worth my time trying to fix them.

Yea. IMO the worst thing you can do is stay silent, because they think you are agreeing with them. I always voice my opinions and I do it in a calm fashion. If you get shouted down it doesn't matter.

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my talent...

This is why I have made it my life's vocation to think of new, creative and interesting ways to tell people to go fuck themselves.


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Rich Woods wrote:This is why

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This is why I have made it my life's vocation to think of new, creative and interesting ways to tell people to go fuck themselves.

Your website is fuckin awesome!


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anniet wrote:What do you do

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What do you do when you find yourself in such situations?

I spend the rest of the weekend arguing with my family about it. Oh, and about global warming, and about religion, and about economics and politics and... well, you get the idea.

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anniet wrote:What do you do

anniet wrote:

What do you do when you find yourself in such situations? 

 

Speaking only for myself, I've mostly given up.  My family has made it clear they will never, ever, ever, EVER, EVER, change their minds no matter what.  They've even told me so.  Instead, I'm going for the "let's not talk about these things" approach, at least with my mother who will never ( ever, ever, EVER, EVER) change her mind.  Talking with some people is an exercise in futility.

 

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