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I had a relationship with a woman many years ago who was "sex crazed". She wanted sex all the time and who do any thing to please me. Unfortunately she was, I think, bi-polar and things didn't work out in the long run.

I met two other women later in my life who were the same way and since I had experienced the first woman I new that after sex there was nothing in the relationship. I ended up stopping the relationships before they got too far along, of course, when I broke up with them I became the bad guy because they felt I was dumping them after the sex.

Don't get me wrong about the women because I did not abuse them or use them for just sex. The first woman was a really deep relationship on my end and I really wanted to marry her, but being that I was naive I didn't know the issues bouncing around inside their head; I didn't know how badly they needed therapy.

Now I come to the point of this discussion where older women in a place like schools want to have sex with teenagers. We have had several here in Florida, very attractive women, that most men would give their left nut to have sexual relations with; at almost any level.

I remember older women in my high school, married, who I would have had sex with if they had offered it. I can't imagine turning a hot woman down at the age of 16 because it would have been fullfiling several fantasies.

These women must have similar problems with sex as the women I previously dated. I just don't get why they risk so much when there are LEGAL men out there which they could have sexual relations with and not deal with the legal issues. Is it the thrill of getting caught or are they just hormone bound to go after the younger guys?

Yet, here in this case, this kid leads on the woman and, I believe, provokes her. I almost wonder if the kid was gay.

www.usatoday.com/story/news/nation/2013/01/18/teen-librarian-sex-case/1844585/


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I think it's largely our

I think it's largely our insular society which is to blame, coupled with sexual harassment issues. People don't go out like they once did, and dating sites aren't for everyone.

Lots of guys and possibly girls have been burned by lawsuits over nothing, and a level of justified fear is involved in asking someone out as a result. Meaning a lot of people won't do so as often as they would otherwise. Meaning a lot of people are lonely.

Some people who are lonely let it affect their judgement.

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digitalbeachbum wrote:Yet,

digitalbeachbum wrote:

Yet, here in this case, this kid leads on the woman and, I believe, provokes her. I almost wonder if the kid was gay.

www.usatoday.com/story/news/nation/2013/01/18/teen-librarian-sex-case/1844585/

yeah, i wonder about that too.  i never flirted with a teacher beyond the most basic, joking level, but it was definitely only with teachers i considered attractive.  i never would have "seen how far i could take it" with some chick i couldn't imagine fucking.

you better believe had things become "sexually charged," i would have let that woman take me around the world, and been grateful for the experience.  i'm thinking of my high school anatomy teacher in particular: hot, blonde, 30 years old max when i had her, girls' basketball coach...ohhh my... 

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Vastet wrote:I think it's

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I think it's largely our insular society which is to blame, coupled with sexual harassment issues. People don't go out like they once did, and dating sites aren't for everyone. Lots of guys and possibly girls have been burned by lawsuits over nothing, and a level of justified fear is involved in asking someone out as a result. Meaning a lot of people won't do so as often as they would otherwise. Meaning a lot of people are lonely. Some people who are lonely let it affect their judgement.

 

I think you are correct. Her judgement is messed up.

I would think that a woman like her would have no trouble getting laid. I looked at her picture online and confirmed her visual attributes.

I am suspecting that she isn't in to dating websites and prefers to meet people first, then if she likes them she forms an attraction to them.

However, she could have done the same thing going out with friends.


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iwbiek wrote:digitalbeachbum

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digitalbeachbum wrote:

Yet, here in this case, this kid leads on the woman and, I believe, provokes her. I almost wonder if the kid was gay.

www.usatoday.com/story/news/nation/2013/01/18/teen-librarian-sex-case/1844585/

yeah, i wonder about that too.  i never flirted with a teacher beyond the most basic, joking level, but it was definitely only with teachers i considered attractive.  i never would have "seen how far i could take it" with some chick i couldn't imagine fucking.

you better believe had things become "sexually charged," i would have let that woman take me around the world, and been grateful for the experience.  i'm thinking of my high school anatomy teacher in particular: hot, blonde, 30 years old max when i had her, girls' basketball coach...ohhh my... 

I had one teacher who was like that, it was Environmental Humanities, but we were at the college level. She was a around 30 and I was about 22. She really liked me but never went beyond the friendly nudging or smile. Although, one time she asked me to go out with her and some friends. I didn't go though mainly because I was too ignorant.

 


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Sex crazed? Damn I wish I

Sex crazed? Damn I wish I had had that problem with women. But the couple times I did date "Hotties" they were, well, rubber room material.

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Brian37 wrote:Sex crazed?

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Sex crazed? Damn I wish I had had that problem with women. But the couple times I did date "Hotties" they were, well, rubber room material.

Well, the 1st woman I mentioned is a rubber room. She was nuts, but I didn't know it until years later after we ended our relationship. The other two women mentioned were crazy too, but after a few sexual encounters I ended it because they were acting the same way the 1st woman did.

I assumed that if they were like her that eventually I would end up with a great sexual partner but a shitty girlfriend.


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 One word to describe the

 One word to describe the kid.... 


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It's the thrill of the

It's the thrill of the forbidden fruit, my friend.   We all know the story of Adam and Eve is fiction, but it still tells a very relevant story to the human condition.

They want it because they are not allowed to have it.

I get that.

And really, dude, who among us would condone locking up a cute 30-something chick for banging a 16 year old high school guy?  Are you kidding me?   We'd be giving him high fives.

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Watcher wrote:It's the

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It's the thrill of the forbidden fruit, my friend.   We all know the story of Adam and Eve is fiction, but it still tells a very relevant story to the human condition.

They want it because they are not allowed to have it.

I get that.

And really, dude, who among us would condone locking up a cute 30-something chick for banging a 16 year old high school guy?  Are you kidding me?   We'd be giving him high fives.

I think you've got a point there.

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digitalbeachbum wrote:I had

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I had a relationship with a woman many years ago who was "sex crazed". She wanted sex all the time and who do any thing to please me. Unfortunately she was, I think, bi-polar and things didn't work out in the long run.

  The only woman I've ever lived with was bi-polar.  I was 24 and she was in her early thirties.  She was a red head with a shaved twat and super muscular legs and she was the best sexual experience of my life at that time.

  I later read that among both male and female people who are bi-polar sometimes exhibit hyper-sexuality.  I suppose she fit that description.   I stayed with her for 11 months and it was a valuable education to say the least.

 ( Oh, I forgot to add that she liked women as well...  )

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Watcher wrote:It's the

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It's the thrill of the forbidden fruit, my friend.   We all know the story of Adam and Eve is fiction, but it still tells a very relevant story to the human condition.

They want it because they are not allowed to have it.

I get that.

And really, dude, who among us would condone locking up a cute 30-something chick for banging a 16 year old high school guy?  Are you kidding me?   We'd be giving him high fives.

I'm all for the guy being gay if that is his thing, but seriously, what 16 year old guy refuses a cute woman like that?


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digitalbeachbum wrote:

I had a relationship with a woman many years ago who was "sex crazed". She wanted sex all the time and who do any thing to please me. Unfortunately she was, I think, bi-polar and things didn't work out in the long run.

  The only woman I've ever lived with was bi-polar.  I was 24 and she was in her early thirties.  She was a red head with a shaved twat and super muscular legs and she was the best sexual experience of my life at that time.

  I later read that among both male and female people who are bi-polar sometimes exhibit hyper-sexuality.  I suppose she fit that description.   I stayed with her for 11 months and it was a valuable education to say the least.

 ( Oh, I forgot to add that she liked women as well...  )

Mine too. She was bi-sexual and used to like sex parties. She was pretty strong with her legs also but she was no athlete.

 


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digitalbeachbum wrote:She

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She was pretty strong with her legs also but she was no athlete.

 

  Funny that you mentioned being an athlete. The woman I mentioned was at the time a semi-professional tennis player who ironically smoked menthol cigarettes and drank Kahlua and coffee like her life depended on it.  She was a hoot.

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She was pretty strong with her legs also but she was no athlete.

 

  Funny that you mentioned being an athlete. The woman I mentioned was at the time a semi-professional tennis player who ironically smoked menthol cigarettes and drank Kahlua and coffee like her life depended on it.  She was a hoot.

Strange the way people work.