Your Capacity for Love?
Many theists say 'love everybody'!
To me, this amounts to prett much the same as loving nobody.
Who can love "everybody"? How? And why?
There is an old saying: Don't bite off more than you can chew.
Whatever love I have in me is for my woman alone. Nobody else can have it. The rest of y'all jokers I can like or dislike if you're an interesting character, and "tolerate" (i.e. ignore) if you're just another mediocre zombie of boredom who's accidentally passing through life. But love you I won't. I can love only one. I refuse to spread myself any thinner than that, lest my love becomes a worthless commodity which supply far exceeds all and any demand for it.
"The idea of God is the sole wrong for which I cannot forgive mankind." (Alphonse Donatien De Sade)