Married Women Can't be Raped
I've heard this bullshit from FEMALE Muslims and Christians before, that if you're married you cannot be "raped" because you agreed to sex. Part of me wants to take them to a home for battered women who have escaped their abusive husbands and shove it in their face. Some people need a serious wake up call, because this kind of distorted logic is sick.
This should be added to the precepts because it's not only irrational, but a tactic of religious leaders gaining more power over women. Rape is rape, with or without a concept or certificate behind it. Marriage does not equal sex. That's another reason why the pressure to wait until marriage can be dangerous, since sex/marriage get confused for one another and people lose track of their obligations and rights.
*Our world is far more complex than the rigid structure we want to assign to it, and we will probably never fully understand it.*
"Those believers who are sophisticated enough to understand the paradox have found exciting ways to bend logic into pretzel shapes in order to defend the indefensible." - Hamby