hopefully hamby will say a few words because i think we'd all agree he's the relationship advice expert.

i tried freethinkermatch.com... maybe it was just my area or something but even though it was a sausage fest i only got two replies.  one man was old enough to be my grandfather (and halfway across the country as well) and the second actually seemed great - until the date - when it came out that basically he was a christian hoping to convert me.  clingy too - took a few weeks to shake him.

i tell people i'm an atheist but anyone could google me and find that out so it's not like lying would work for more than a one night stand anyway.